I had been ill for almost three months when my husband, Jason, told me he would be traveling to Europe with his parents and his younger sister.

“You’ll be fine,” he said, fastening his suitcase. “It’s only seventy-four days.”

I was still recovering from a severe autoimmune flare that had left me exhausted, unsteady, and reliant on medication every day. My doctor had made it clear that I could not miss a single dose. Jason knew that perfectly well. He had been sitting beside me during the appointment.