“At your age, you are more of a burden than a help, Mom. You would be better off going back home.”

My father said it while refilling his coffee, not even looking up from his phone. We were standing in the international check-in line at Los Angeles International Airport. The terminal was crowded, smelling of stale jet fuel and expensive perfume. Around us, families were laughing and rolling their bright suitcases toward the counters.